I am a fun and energetic person who has found myself over the last year and began a new journey in life a much healthier one! With a lot of hard work I am finally in a place where I am finally able to do things I have always wanted to do that I was unable to do before! I have been through a lot in life and I am not perfect and I do have some insecurities but I am working on them, I am human, I am a Taurus and have some of the Taurus tendencies, I am a mother, I am married but separated and it is complicated but this does not hinder my ability for relationships, I am not on here looking for that random hook up or for sex or friends with benefits. I am looking for something more (look below). If after reading this NOVEL..haha yes I know its long but I think it saves both of us time.. if you like what you read and think you fit it then send me a message, please have a picture and if its not on your profile then makes sure its attached with your message and if I think your what I am looking for (yes I will read your profile) I will reply. Lets not waste one anothers time and please be respectful! I know what I want and what I am looking for! I do have Snapchat, Kik, and WhatsApp.
OK! LET ME JUST CLEAR A FEW THINGS UP....First....Lets not waste one anothers time! Don't waste my time nor yours! If any of the following below isn't for you/offends you or is you then don't bother messaging me as I wont respond! Ok so here we go! I have been on here now for a little while and have had quite the experiences “ughh”. Please know I am not saying this with anger or bitterness, I am simply just putting it out there and trying to save one anothers time.
1. If your looking for a hook up! *Don't message me*
2. As stated above I have kids! If this bothers you then... BYE! If not GREAT, however just know my kids come first before anyone else, they are my first priority! This does not mean I wont have time, I will make time for the right person!
3. If you are into the Barbie kinda females, you know the ones with the flawless perfect bodies and sculpted stomachs! *I am surely no Barbie, I have flaws I am not perfect, I am human, and I have meat on my bones and therefore cannot be broken in half! However I have worked hard to get to where I am now and am still working on it!
4. If you are looking for that High Maintenance kinda female, you know with the perfect hair, makeup, nails clothes & shoes to match...Yup you guessed it...I am NOT it! The only thing considered high maintenance on me is my hair (well, at least that is what my hair dresser calls my hair), I wear little makeup, and never get my nails done! I don't mind getting dirt and grease on me and breaking a nail, just let me know and I will make sure not to wear my really good clothes! I know how to have fun. If tattoos on a female bothers you then move along....I love tattoos and I have them!
5. I am outspoken, sarcastic, witty, strong minded, open minded, and pretty much speak whats on my mind (the more I know someone the more that comes out but know when to also shut my mouth) *so if your looking for someone who is shy and only speaks when spoken to...again yup NOT me, however I know how to be respectful and ladylike when needed!.
6. DO NOT catfish me! DO NOT send me pics you stole of the web of some random person! If you are not who you say you are and cannot be honest with what you look like then don't bother...DO NOT send me a fake picture! I will require to know what you look like as I like to know who I am talking to and getting to know (SO IF YOUR PROFILE HAS NO PICTURE THEN MAKE SURE YOU ATTACH ONE WITH YOUR MESSAGE OR I WONT REPLY EVEN IF YOUR PROFILE SEEMS TO INTEREST ME), I will ask for video chatting , more pictures and I will require phone contact at some point. Its all part of getting to know one another!
7. We are all adults (well supposed to be), we are all on here for one reason or another...so if something in my profile bothers you or rubs you the wrong way just MOVE ON...NO need be disrespectful and immature, don't message me with disrespectful remarks! Seriously should I have to say this?
8. If you message me and I dont reply it doesnt mean message me repeatedly multiple times with different bogus thing more bogus than the last! Seriously let it go, move on!
Ok now that, that whole thing is out of the way PHEWWW…..
A little about me!
I like to be as active as I can when I can, I like to keep my mind busy as much as possible! However, I can also enjoy sitting down and relaxing! I tend to be easily amused and easily pleased. I am an understanding person who knows life isnt perfect and shit happens and have a big heart, I am kind, caring, affectionate, protective of my loved ones, compassionate, strong minded, ambitious, outgoing, honest, family oriented, love animals, loyal, high energetic, trustworthy, I have a great sense of humor and can be sarcastic and blunt, I can be opinionated and outspoken, playful. I love to laugh and do fun things. This is just a touch of who I am as I am so much more. The more I know someone and trust them the more I open up, the sky is the limit!
I enjoy reading, watching movies/tv, listening to music, playing board/card/dice games when the opportunity arises, going to amusement parks and riding the rides, going to the beach, going for walks, nature, working with animals, going to parks, swimming, fishing (yes I even set up my own rod, bait it, catch it and take my catch off the hook), camping, fires, spending time with family and friends and that special person in my life. I like to do a lot of things just depends on who I am with, what there is to do and what we are in the mood to do.
I enjoy texting and talking on the phone as much as I can about anything and everything. As much as I like to talk I like to listen! And with the right person I enjoy spending time with them and cuddling while watching a movie or just while we talk or even read a book.