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I am a fun and energetic person who has found myself over the last year and began a new journey in life a much healthier one! With a lot of hard work I am finally in a place where I am finally able to do things I have always wanted to do that I was unable to do before! I have been through a lot in life and I am not perfect and I do have some insecurities but I am working on them, I am human, I am a Taurus and have some of the Taurus tendencies, I am a mother, I am married but separated and it is complicated but this does not hinder my ability for relationships, I am not on here looking for that random hook up or for sex or friends with benefits. I am looking for something more (look below). If after reading this NOVEL..haha yes I know its long but I think it saves both of us time.. if you like what you read and think you fit it then send me a message, please have a picture and if its not on your profile then makes sure its attached with your message and if I think your what I am looking for (yes I will read your profile) I will reply. Lets not waste one anothers time and please be respectful! I know what I want and what I am looking for! I do have Snapchat, Kik, and WhatsApp.
OK! LET ME JUST CLEAR A FEW THINGS UP....First....Lets not waste one anothers time! Don't waste my time nor yours! If any of the following below isn't for you/offends you or is you then don't bother messaging me as I wont respond! Ok so here we go! I have been on here now for a little while and have had quite the experiences “ughh”. Please know I am not saying this with anger or bitterness, I am simply just putting it out there and trying to save one anothers time.
1. If your looking for a hook up! *Don't message me*
2. As stated above I have kids! If this bothers you then... BYE! If not GREAT, however just know my kids come first before anyone else, they are my first priority! This does not mean I wont have time, I will make time for the right person!
3. If you are into the Barbie kinda females, you know the ones with the flawless perfect bodies and sculpted stomachs! *I am surely no Barbie, I have flaws I am not perfect, I am human, and I have meat on my bones and therefore cannot be broken in half! However I have worked hard to get to where I am now and am still working on it!
4. If you are looking for that High Maintenance kinda female, you know with the perfect hair, makeup, nails clothes & shoes to match...Yup you guessed it...I am NOT it! The only thing considered high maintenance on me is my hair (well, at least that is what my hair dresser calls my hair), I wear little makeup, and never get my nails done! I don't mind getting dirt and grease on me and breaking a nail, just let me know and I will make sure not to wear my really good clothes! I know how to have fun. If tattoos on a female bothers you then move along....I love tattoos and I have them!
5. I am outspoken, sarcastic, witty, strong minded, open minded, and pretty much speak whats on my mind (the more I know someone the more that comes out but know when to also shut my mouth) *so if your looking for someone who is shy and only speaks when spoken to...again yup NOT me, however I know how to be respectful and ladylike when needed!.
6. DO NOT catfish me! DO NOT send me pics you stole of the web of some random person! If you are not who you say you are and cannot be honest with what you look like then don't bother...DO NOT send me a fake picture! I will require to know what you look like as I like to know who I am talking to and getting to know (SO IF YOUR PROFILE HAS NO PICTURE THEN MAKE SURE YOU ATTACH ONE WITH YOUR MESSAGE OR I WONT REPLY EVEN IF YOUR PROFILE SEEMS TO INTEREST ME), I will ask for video chatting , more pictures and I will require phone contact at some point. Its all part of getting to know one another!
7. We are all adults (well supposed to be), we are all on here for one reason or if something in my profile bothers you or rubs you the wrong way just MOVE ON...NO need be disrespectful and immature, don't message me with disrespectful remarks! Seriously should I have to say this?
8. If you message me and I dont reply it doesnt mean message me repeatedly multiple times with different bogus thing more bogus than the last! Seriously let it go, move on!

Ok now that, that whole thing is out of the way PHEWWW…..
A little about me!
I like to be as active as I can when I can, I like to keep my mind busy as much as possible! However, I can also enjoy sitting down and relaxing! I tend to be easily amused and easily pleased. I am an understanding person who knows life isnt perfect and shit happens and have a big heart, I am kind, caring, affectionate, protective of my loved ones, compassionate, strong minded, ambitious, outgoing, honest, family oriented, love animals, loyal, high energetic, trustworthy, I have a great sense of humor and can be sarcastic and blunt, I can be opinionated and outspoken, playful. I love to laugh and do fun things. This is just a touch of who I am as I am so much more. The more I know someone and trust them the more I open up, the sky is the limit!
I enjoy reading, watching movies/tv, listening to music, playing board/card/dice games when the opportunity arises, going to amusement parks and riding the rides, going to the beach, going for walks, nature, working with animals, going to parks, swimming, fishing (yes I even set up my own rod, bait it, catch it and take my catch off the hook), camping, fires, spending time with family and friends and that special person in my life. I like to do a lot of things just depends on who I am with, what there is to do and what we are in the mood to do.
I enjoy texting and talking on the phone as much as I can about anything and everything. As much as I like to talk I like to listen! And with the right person I enjoy spending time with them and cuddling while watching a movie or just while we talk or even read a book.

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My Video Gaming Preferences

I play onPC, Mobile
I playFew times a week

My Dancing Preferences

When did you start dancing?I haven't started yet
Do you go to dance classes?No, I don't
Do you attend competitions?No
Have you ever won a prize in a competition?No
Does your potential date have to be a dancer, too?No


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height5' 3" (160 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenTwo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsOther
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleResidential Support Worker

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Reality shows, Science fiction
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Horror, Thriller
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Soul, Reggae
Reading selectionFantasy, Fiction, Science fiction
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Games, Family, Camping, Fishing, Playing cards


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a museum


Political viewsNot sure
ReligionNot religious
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerWhat I am looking for!
I am looking for strong “likeminded” people to talk to and get to know and develop friendships with around my age that shares some of the same interests with me and are compatible with who I am. I would like to get to know one another for a little bit until we are both comfortable with meeting in person, then when that comes we can get together, go out, and do fun things whether it’s just to talk over coffee or food, go for a walk, the beach maybe even an amusement park, or even just sit at a park and talk, anything really as long as we both are having fun and getting to know one another.
A friend that will be able to hold a conversation and talk about whatever is going on at that moment in time, share stories or interests with, laugh and joke around, someone who I can trust and count on and feel safe in our friendship with no judgments or fears. Someone who can put a smile on my face with the simplest word or gesture! Possibly make a best friend out of the deal, maybe even find my soulmate, and if a connection grows and there was chemistry and pull, we would then decide what to do from there! But right now I truly want to go into this “relationship” as just friends with the possibility of growth into something more.

Who would be my soulmate? Does this exist? I would like to believe it does because I am still searching for him. He would be:

Someone who I can connect with on a multitude of levels on the deepest connection. Besides the physical attributes and attraction. Would be honest, loyal, respectful, kind, loving, sweet, caring, affectionate, good sense of humor, compassionate, good heart, passionate, loves animals. Appreciates me as I would him, can treat me like a queen and the most treasured person in his life. He would be patient and take the time that is needed no matter what it is. Is more towards being an alpha male and is not afraid to be protective and possessive when it is needed and able to keep it at a reasonable level. Would do anything for those he cares about and willing to go the extra mile without a thought. Strong but knows how to be gentle, tender but can be dominating when he needs to be, knows how to take control of the reins but gives slack of them when needed. He will know how to bring down my walls and build me up when its needed and be able to let me do the same for him. Is not afraid to challenge me and be challenged by me. Can frustrate me and handle being frustrated by me when I am frustrating. Can bring out the best in me, believes in me as I would believe in him, push me to be my best limit and handle me doing the same to him. Can know what I am thinking with just a look, who walks into a room takes my breath away and can drive me crazy in places I forgot I had! Is my best friend who I can trust and confide in with no fears of judgment and would know me more than anyone else as I would be for to him. Who isn't afraid to love deeply and unconditionally and be loved deeply and unconditionally back! Strives to put a smile on my face and make me happy everyday as I would for him. Can wrap his arms around me and instantly make me feel protected, safe, warm, and instantly relaxed. Moments when we are apart we cant think about anything but the other. When I look into his eyes they would show me a display of mischief, love and passion as would my eyes when he looks into mine, when I see his smile it renders me speechless and mine does the same to him. Talk for hours on end about anything and everything or lay cuddled together enjoying one another. He would be everything and so much more to me and I would be his! This would be a connection so deep unlike any other on all levels and aspects he would be my match made for me as I was made for him!
Does this exist? I would like to believe it does because I am still searching for him.